Alexander / @DatePsych:
"The average man, statistically: overweight, does no sports or exercise, is in debt, plays video games daily, uses pornography regularly, believes in 3-4 conspiracy theories, has an education below a bachelor’s degree. About half of these average men will also have a mental illness. About half have no social hobbies or friends. The average woman: also overweight and sedentary, high emotional dysregulation, divergent political beliefs from men on average (feminist or left wing), not a virgin or “trad” in any sense, also in debt. I am not convinced that the average man is totally fine with settling for his “match.” I think what is more common is that these two types of people are just not attractive to each other, often even repulsive to each other. Both the average man and woman aspire for romantic partners who are better than them, but not just better - they aspire for romantic partners who are a different type of person. And that type of person is someone who generally is not attracted to the kind of person that they are. So you end up with a mutual attraction problem. Everyone in your dating pool who is your “match” comes with 3-4 deal breakers that not even the most hardcore incel would compromise on."
[I really miss this guy very much. - "he mixed dark humor, stats, and blunt realism in a way that’s rare."]
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