"High Value Men":

Alexander / DatePsych:

"Imagine just two premises: 1. High value men never commit; they just want casual sex. 2. High value men who are desirable are already in relationships. Basically the most desirable people are perpetually off the market, they don’t stay single long, or they are otherwise unavailable for committed relationships. How do dozens of good romantic prospects exist for a man or a woman, given that? What you actually end up with is a sort of lower class of less desirable people. Perpetually single people running around with no options except for bad ones. If they meet someone who has mutual attraction for them it’s a rare event. It’s already hard enough to pair up attractive people who have mutual attraction for each other! You’re basically telling them “pick from the chaff.” Why wouldn’t they feel lonely? Just because someone isn’t a desirable romantic partner doesn’t mean that they should someone have attraction for others who aren’t either."