Competence and Dominance:

From Robin Richtsfeld:

"Why in the world would you want an incompetent partner? You can't dominate a competent partner."

I like this sentence. Within my relationships I have made different experiences. It really is hard to dominate a competent partner. There will be, a la Jordan Peterson, some kind of a wrestling match. The best relationships certainly are these that grow between two highly competent persons. Additionally I like the idea of being competent or effective. A competent or effective person has the ability to create change, to move things, and some control over relevant resources.