Stoicism:

"a stoic man is a toxic man in the minds of Hollywood writers whereas I see it as like a necessary um survival skill really throughout most of human history."

"they used to struggle and they used to have to put up with a lot of hardship and you develop stoicism as a result of that."

"you have effeminate men who've never endured hardship."

"you don't get stoic male characters they have to be constantly joking they have to be constantly like doing the the goofy um self-conscious ironic humor about themselves."

"that's a caricature Hollywood bullshit version of what a man is meant to act like."

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