Love:

Milburn, Minimalism:

"If you truly love someone, what are you willing to do for them? Anything! You should be willing to bend over backwards, to go to great lengths for the people you love. That’s how you strengthen your relationships.

Furthermore, being loved is different than being needed. You should, however, work hard to understand what your loved ones need. And the primary relationships in your life should feel the same way towards you. If they don’t, you must ask yourself if that person is worthy of being one of your primary relationships and the time you must dedicate to said relationships."