On Dating:

~ You have to notice that people who are good at dating are usually people who are genuinely interested in dating. They often don’t even need another date—they may already have plenty of opportunities—but they keep going on more dates anyway. It’s the same principle again: if you want to become skilled at something, you really have to be interested in doing it.

If you want to become good at dating, you need a strong motivation to date. There has to be something in you that says: “This is what I really want to do right now, and I don’t want to be distracted by other things.”