Mate Value Discrepancy:

Samstag, 8. März 2025

Mate Value Discrepancy:

"Studies on mate value discrepancies show this: when one partner feels “less than,” they’re more prone to jealousy or anxiety about abandonment."

"If you perceive your partner as hotter (or superior in some other way), you might unconsciously defer to them more—letting them call the shots on plans, opinions, even big decisions. Over time, that can erode your sense of agency, leaving you feeling more like a sidekick than an equal. Research on relationship dynamics backs this up: perceived inequality, even if it’s just in your head, can tilt the partnership into something lopsided."

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