Submissiveness:

Vocabulary.com:

When you are submissive, you submit to someone else's will, which literally, you put your own desires lower than theirs. You can see this in the Latin root of submit, submittere, which is formed by sub- "under" + mittere "send, put."

Definitions of submissive

1. adjective

    inclined or willing to submit to orders or wishes of others or showing such inclination
   “submissive servants”

   “a submissive reply”

   “replacing troublemakers with more submissive people”

   synonyms:

   unassertive

   inclined to timidity or lack of self-confidence

   abject

   showing humiliation or submissiveness

   bowed, bowing

   showing an excessively deferential manner

   meek, spiritless

   evidencing little spirit or courage; overly submissive or compliant

   cringing, groveling, grovelling, wormlike, wormy

   totally submissive

   dominated, henpecked

   harassed by persistent nagging

   obedient

   dutifully complying with the commands or instructions of those in authority

   humble

   marked by meekness or modesty; not arrogant or prideful

   subordinate

   subject or submissive to authority or the control of another