Liv Sage:
"I wouldn’t date a man if there was even a hint that he’d find doing this funny or acceptable. Sometimes that means you end up dating very serious men who don’t joke around much, but this is thoroughly undignified and embarrassing to your respective families. This is also why when girls tell me a top thing they look for in a man is that he’s funny (not a sense of humor, but funny), I have to wonder. A lot of “funny” guys are just clowns, and it takes more discernment to figure out a true clown from a lighthearted, funny guy. And it’s how you end up with a clown shoving a whole cake in your face. It’s one thing to put a piece of cake a bit sloppily into someone’s mouth. Throwing a whole cake, mashing cake in someone’s face? Clown behavior."
Quora:
"As someone who has gotten much mileage out of joker and clown, I can tell you that they have great attractive power. You just better have more than that in the tank. The guys that are serious about something important, are the guys that have staying power. Everything else is just a fling."
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Quora:
"a woman would be unlikely to respect someone who acts like a clown just for laughs. Respect is typically earned through demonstrating competence, integrity, and maturity - not through engaging in silly or childish behavior solely for amusement. A balanced approach of having a good sense of humor while also behaving in a dignified manner is more likely to foster genuine respect in a relationship."
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Buzzfeed:
"The guys I dated who were 'very funny' were usually overcompensating for something. One of them was immature and terrible in bed, and the other suffered from depression. So now I go for guys who have a decent sense of humor but don’t feel the need to be the funniest in the room."
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Buzzfeed:
"The jokes, lightheartedness, nonstop conversation, and perpetual laughter were good until they weren't. I used to love how he could entertain anybody in the room, how he could float seamlessly between groups and conversations, and how he always seemed so secure socially. But the flip side was that he always had to make a funny comment in every situation, even when it wasn't needed or appropriate."
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Buzzfeed:
"I married the funny one. I love laughing. A sense of humor is an absolute must. But if I need to have a serious conversation and all my guy can do is make jokes instead of helping with solutions, we are fast-tracking to a bitter breakup. That was my ex. He was a class clown and the loudest person in any conversation; he always had to have the last word. I mistook it for confidence once upon a time."
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