Female Mate Choice - Respect:

 John Marshall Townsend:

"When asked what they most desired in a man, over half of the female medical students stated they wanted a man who was a challenge, one they could adimire and respect. One third said that they wanted a man who made them feel 'protected'. When asked what they needed protection from, they were vague ... Nevertheless, they said that having a man they truly respected would make them feel more secure."

"Evolutionary psychologists argue that women are attracted to signs of status and success because mates who had these qualities were able to invest more in them and their offspring. Men who appear weak and ineffectual compared to other men are generally less able to provide and protect, and hence, have less to offer. ... Most women are attracted to men who can be tough and compettitive in the outside world because the world is a tough and competitive place and only the skillful succeed. At the same time, the man must demonstrate his willingness to invest in her ..."

"feelings of respect and admiration ... are ... an integral part of sexual attraction for women."

"One woman said she would prefer not do date down because sher would have nothing to talk about with a less-educated man ..."