Losing Comfort:

The problem of losing comfort -
If you lose a person who provided comfort.

Selena: 

"Everytime I see a man heartbroken or distraught about his ex she's never stunningly beautiful. For some reason models don't capture the soul in the way that the cute bubbly mid grasps it. But the feeling is lingering and delayed. She had that glazed over gleam of adoration in her eyes when she looked at you, she didn't have any true deal breakers. For some reason you just let her slip away, and you only realised what you had done after the fact. But now that it's over you know there's no going back. She doesn't look at you the same. She's naturally warm and soft, but there's no question that she seems colder to you – that previous version of her is inaccessible to you now. If she does reply then it's frustratingly short and to the point like you're doing business or speaking with a work colleague. it's over anon. she's gone."